Whether it is openly discussed in polite society or not it generally understood every action, gesture, inference or thought that every straight man takes is essentially in the hopes of getting laid by the most attractive member of the opposite sex as often as possible as he can. To pretend otherwise is to scoff at [...]
In response to the articles:‘Why Some Vixens Screw their way around the Globe, ‘CAUGHT BETWEEN A COCK AND A HARD PLACE. “A Modern New York City Girl’s Dilemma” “Payola- How Women play Men,” “Dating in the recession, has left a hole in my stomach,” “The double standard of women” and the prospective “Fat men with [...]
I’m sitting across the table with a woman on a luncheon outing and to be sure she’s quite delightful. We speak at length about our respective careers, aspirations, expectations and what passes for gossip. For a good hour or two I listen enthralled, as the woman in question describes her blossoming career to me, the [...]
Why evolution theory is still here to stay. For some misguided notion there have been a lot of men thinking that if they just used lots of moisturizer, spoke with a French accent and wore this season’s penny loafers that they would get all the girls. Of course a new study released today disproves all [...]
The things that matter to you. The following discussion was raised by one of my facebook friends and as you can see it has elicited a lot of reactions. Of course the ultimate contradiction being that on one hand we have an affinity towards having a partner and then just as much as we have [...]
When F Scott Fitzgerald wrote his novel the Great Gatsby back in the 1920′s it was at a time when the nation as a whole had begun to immerse itself in technological revolution, mass communication, the aftermath of a heady WW1 and the time when America was suddenly becoming the new cultural elite and purveyor [...]
My mother calls me a dinner whore. I call myself a serial first dater. Either way, it feeds me. Or at least, it used too. I once fed myself by going on first dates for 2 months straight in an employment lull. I didn’t spend a dollar on lunch or dinner and only had to [...]
Dating has always been a perfected ‘game pitch.’ Before the cluster arrival of cell phones, facebook, the internet, twitter one would actually go out meet people and hopefully get a number. From there one would be required to ring and speak like human beings or at worst leave a beguiling phone message that depending on [...]
Pay for play or payola is a common term in the music industry. Paying people to play your music on radio stations is an illegal and frowned upon practice. However, payola is a common practice in the relationship realm. For some women, it is dinner and a movie. For others it is many dinners and [...]
There are many things a man can say in his cantankerous efforts to bed a much younger woman. There are always the myriad of lies he can keep up with, including whom he knows, where he lives, what he does and how much he is worth. A bold practitioner of such nebulous affairs will, by [...]
