Tag: dating
Gender, Sex and Money.
In response to the articles:'Why Some Vixens Screw their way around the Globe, 'CAUGHT BETWEEN A COCK AND A HARD PLACE. “A Modern New York City Girl’s Dilemma” "Payola- How Women play Men," "Dating in the...
The double standard of women…
I'm sitting across the table with a woman on a luncheon outing and to be sure she's quite delightful. We speak at length about our respective careers, aspirations, expectations and what passes for gossip. For a...
Dating in the recession, has left a hole in my stomach.
My mother calls me a dinner whore. I call myself a serial first dater. Either way, it feeds me. Or at least, it used too. I once fed myself by going on first dates for 2 months straight in...
The etiquette of ‘text’ dating.
Dating has always been a perfected ‘game pitch.’ Before the cluster arrival of cell phones, facebook, the internet, twitter one would actually go out meet people and hopefully get a number. From there one would be required to ring and speak like...
Payola- How Women play Men.
Pay for play or payola is a common term in the music industry. Paying people to play your music on radio stations is an illegal and frowned upon practice. However, payola is a common practice in the relationship realm.
For...
The etiquette of trying to bed a younger woman.
There are many things a man can say in his cantankerous efforts to bed a much younger woman. There are always the myriad of lies he can keep up with, including whom he knows, where he lives, what he...
The Cougar convention is on its way.
How to pick up young boys and other tips.
We’ve been noticing with disquieting unease the surplus of news reports that have suddenly made it kosher for older women to pick up and manhandle young boys. We’re not sure how...
The Dating Game in NYC. Whatever happened to it?
Dating is a tenuous affair, especially in a vibrant 'everyman for himself' domain like New York City. What one learns after having spent some time in NY is that dating isn't just really a desire to connect emotionally or...
A Good Girl’s Checklist for a Man…
There comes a time when going out and coming home at 4 am to the apartment paid for by your father just does not cut it anymore. You’re entering your mid 20’s and reality is sinking in. Things are...
My dalliance with a Sugar Daddy…
Of the most lethal things one can wrap their mind around, it is -sex and money. At once desirable and at the same time deplorable, stimulating and yet also mind numbing, erotic and limp, a visceral turn on, and...
WISHFUL HAMPTON LOVERS – ALL SEEKING THAT PRECIOUS ‘GEM’
When single in the Hamptons, it is best to avoid that repulsive commentary from ‘peanut galleries’ of cute-well dressed guys patiently sitting on perches (wooden benches) throughout the quaint villages of South Hampton, Bridgehampton, East Hampton, Amagansett, and Montauk;...
Confirmed- Women in NY prefer dating investment bankers as opposed to pharmaceutical salesmen.
The myth that money can’t buy love and other necessary must knows in NY.
Out of the 'preeminent' NYT’s Weekend Fashion and Styles section comes an expose of how women should be gearing themselves for a happy and opportunistic relationships...
The allure and perils of on line dating…
I’m not immune to the phenomenon of online dating, in fact, its a social experiment for me. I’ve been on all sorts of dates and perused all kinds of profiles and no matter what kind of package each bachelor...
A Gigolo’s Handbook. Part 1.
Based upon every Thursday night at a Turtle Bay bar, the point of the program was for young, affable men to charm the knickers off a Golden Oldie. Hence began my education...
This is a primer. A discussion of the...
Russian Speed-Dating Would Make My Uncle Smile
My uncle Nikolai has been building castles in the sky around the idea of me marrying a traditional Russian girl since my immaculate and flawless birth in 1982. He’s come to my parents’ house with pierogi s’mockum and ginger...
