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Lingerie ad strikes controversy as mother and daughter are pitted together in garter belts in provocative poses.


An underwear/lingerie campaign by the lingerie outlet ‘The Lake and Stars,’ has caused some degree of dissent because of its particular representation of a 19-year-old girl and her mother. What’s controversial isn’t that these two women appear half naked in the ad together but how they actually appear together. Or to be succinct how they relate to each other, which in this case borders on incense, same sex love adulation and the carnal forbidden, which is frankly just another day at the office for fashion brands as they continue to push the limits of proprietary.

Argue the brand’s head designers, Nikki Dekker and Maayan Zilberman:

“A lot of the themes that we’re dealing with are about psychology between women as they’re growing up and dealing with family politics or women in the workplace. We always poke fun at these ideas that people take really seriously, but we’re trying to make it so that people can talk about it and have a sense of humor about it.”

But what family politics are being espoused when the images portray the all too comfortable and slightly awkward veneer not of mother and daughter but what could be interpreted as a young woman and her older female lover longingly admiring each other. Yet then again this could be the deceit of the campaign- that we know that the models are mother and daughter (the resemblance is uncanny) and their suggestive reposes alert us to the un natural or perhaps treacherous- which one assumes is what is suppose to hint at this lingerie line’s viability.

“That’s what really drives the collection and what drives the photos: these women who are experiencing something that we’re not necessarily experiencing. I wanted to present portraits of them so that people would see the chemistry that they have. I think it’s really rare, you don’t see a lot of that.”

Rare because most mother and daughters although having extremely intimate relationships rarely have relationships bordering on the carnal or suggesting as such. Once again it seems the retailer is dangling the controversial and opaque by design to force a discussion of mother daughter themes and by implication the fashion brand’s contentious disposition for bringing uncomfortable or should we argue highly suggestive erotism to the fore between subjects that most of us would be reluctant to spend too much time considering.

The campaign itself according to the designers was an accident and one of coincidence:

The mother and daughter pictured in the campaign are not models by trade, Zilberman said. They are just her next-door neighbors in Brooklyn, everyday women, who seem to have an interesting relationship. “They’re always so loving and tender towards each other,” Zilberman said.

Loving and tender- yes. But loving and tender and sitting in each other’s laps in garter belts? Is that something most 19 year old girls do or have even fathomed doing? But once again this is the kicker of the campaign and its allure that it presents a particular dichotomy about how we as society view certain relationships, in this case mother and daughter and thus cleverly extends its branding as we the consumer take the extra second to consider what it is what we are witnessing and how or why it intrigues and yet as in this case perhaps repulses us…

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  1. This article is hilarious! I, for one, like the logs. I take it as a humorous shoot that looks cool. Will I buy the lingerie? Well, they don’t sell it in my town, but I’d definitely try it on if they did. 

  2. If they were in bikinis, it wouldn’t provoke quite the same reaction. If the daughter were naked, 3 years old, and being held by her hot mother in lingerie it would not provoke the same reaction. I’m not saying all mothers should jump into lingerie with their children, but living by example – the comfortability of being present in lingerie – is a great way to leave a positive and healthy imprint on a young 19 year old woman who still has sexual self-esteem to develop.

  3. I think this is beautiful. People who are afraid of it or make it into something is is not are living in fear of their own deep buried unlocked fantasies – just like homophobes usually have some deep gay fantasy and/or hate gays because they’re scared they might get turned on or like it. Any sexually healthy person will see this as beautiful, captivating, and not sexually intended – but a nurturing mother who obviously has a healthy attitude toward art and comfort and security in her relationship with her daughter. It is empowering to the female sex; most of society hates sexually powerful women – related or not. Have you seen what families do together in Finland during the summer? Americans wouldn’t be able to take a naked father and daughter swimming together at the hot spring. People need to get over it and focus on the important stuff. Life is just too short.

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