I understand your bitterness in finding that the women that are interested in such endeavors must seem to you as ranking sub-par in your criteria of choice: the hot, stylish, worldly and often foreign-born 22 year-old student-models with ‘barely a high school degree to back it up”. I am surprised you haven’t been more successful, women adore being approached with this attitude, especially if they can get to spend a little cash in the process. But I understand. You love to hate lusting away at these women the way you hated the blond and aloof beauty queen who lead the cheerleading squad in high school; who wouldn’t look at you but would go for that beef-headed captain of the football team. To you, she remained an idiotic, materialistic cunt – but fuck, she is hot – and wouldn’t it be great to get to be the captain of the football team for once, and prove to all those fuckers that I was a better man all along… Yes, yes, yes, life is tough.
If you want to fuck for status, you gotta have some to spare. And if not, you’ll just have to deal with women with a little less cock and a little more brain – or heart if you can muster some. A wise friend of mine once received this advice: talk to women the way you talk to men. Treat them kindly. Never let the thought of fucking her color the way you act around her. And another ancient one for the road: Make a beautiful woman feel smart, make a smart one feel beautiful… I slept with him – and had a great time in general.
Number two, to address the rest, the ‘hard place’, ‘payola’ and ‘ double standard’ pieces:
A tad bit of ‘double standard’ is redundant to the previous conversation, in that the disappointing creature of choice has now migrated from the failed model-student type to the promisingly successful starlet type. Higher, yet similarly status-oriented standard. You want a crazy hot, status-giving escort to fuck standing-up in your befuddled best friend’s bathroom but you resent her navigating towards a status-giving escort of her own. Well, tough luck, again, you reap what you sow.