In most cases, rather few of them. Which again works out quite well since most of these women wouldn’t want them either. (There are some women who say they enjoy overpowering men in all kind of ways, intellectually, financially or sexually – but I suspect the pleasure comes more from a narcissistic self-aggrandizing, empowering complex than a true sexual attraction to the weaker-than-self). Because sadly or happily, this is who we are. It’s very ok for a woman to have a her lover be bigger, stronger, older or more successful. And it’s generally very for ok a man to have his lover be smaller, frailer, younger and less successful.
It’s generalities – we never talked in something else – but this is the way our little millennia of history has shaped us in relationship to each other – and if the physicality will never change (men can generally overpower women and they have sticking-out cocks that fit inside women’s hollowed-out cunts) the emotional and social consequences of this will take a little more than a single-digit amount of decades to be altered. And as long as money is our society’s most relevant emblem of power, it will likely be unequally dealt in the equation (which is a still a very relevant double-edged sword).
So yes, valiant gentlemen, get onto your hard, white stallion in the chilly moonlight, brave great dangers with scintillating prowess, cleverness and charm – and come back to us, poor, sullen, oft-imprisoned nymphs, to save us from ourselves…
– with unbounded, unconditional love,
your imaginary friend