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100 Cups of Coffee. The ins and outs of internet dating.

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SCV: What are some of the difficulties of dating for women, especially in New York?

K.S:  Well in New York, you are one of millions of girls. It is hard to stand out and meet that ONE person… unless you are stunning and have your boobs hanging out at a bar, you are not going to get noticed as much. For girls like me, it’s hard to get guys to get past the superficial status. Guys are either after one thing or the entire package.  I have a hundred thousand dollar education but not Double D’s… give me a break!    

As for difficulties in general, it’s really hard to trust someone. You can tell a lot about a person on the first date. The saying goes…you can tell if you want to go on a 2nd date with someone within the first 5 minutes (has worked every time). But that is why I go on so many dates, I don’t want to put my trust in one guy…they have to earn it. Its like putting your eggs in a basket. Why put them all in one basket…if that one man drops it, you lose everything. So I spread my eggs (TRUST not ovarian) amongst all the dates, so if at least one fails, I have others to rely on.                       

SCV: What do you think are some of the difficulties of dating for men?

K.S: Their biggest difficulties are that some of them do not have the confidence to actually walk up to a woman and put themselves out there. Not to mention boys: please learn the difference between confidence and cockiness.

SCV: What are some of the signs you look for in a man, as well as some pet peeves that attract you and/or make you want to get the hell out? Does age play a factor in either?

K.S: Well I will start with the positives….when a guy pays for a date, even if it is a a cup of coffee. That little spark of financial security is good. Dressing nice is obviously good, I am not saying to sport an Armani Suit but not looking like a hobo is good. The biggest thing though is HAVE A PLAN, I don’t want to banter back and forth on where to go on the date or what you want to eat-Be Direct, Be a Man.

As for the negatives I could go on forever obviously with 57 dates under my belt.  Don’t give me a hello hug with an erection when I first meet you, do not talk about and call your ex girlfriend during the date, don’t talk about what our kids would look like, and definitely do not go through your entire sexual history with me.  Don’t bring up your salary or ask what mine is, and definitely do not use inappropriate or offensive words. As for age, as long as you are not old to the point of gray and receding and as long as you are not young to the point of no hair anywhere.


SCV: Have you had the temptation to jump in the sack with any of your first dates?

K.S: I’m not gonna lie, the Camaro was hot. But out of 57 dates and that was the only person I wanted to sleep with?!?! I see your face and YES I am sexually frustrated, I would really like to hurry that part of the process up.

SCV What are all the forms of dating you use besides online and what are the best and worst online sites for readers out there looking into it?

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  1. Hilarious interview! She sounds like a great girl.
    So many crazies out there, but its definitely fun -)
    The joke about eggs was great! -)))

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