Last night saw the finale of season 18 of the Bachelor and it was down to the wire. Who would Venezuelan soccer stud, Juan Pablo Galavis choose? In the end it turned out neither woman….
Left to pick between outspoken hairstylist Clare Crawley and pediatric nurse Nikki Ferrell, fans were on the edge of their seats. But even though they’d beat scores of other women to get to the final two, neither woman were convinced they’d won over the bachelor’s heart.
Especially Clare, who revealed she was shocked and insulted by something Galavis said to her during their final date.
‘What I thought was going to be sweet, kind, loving words was not what came out of his mouth,‘ she said.
‘And I was shocked. He chose to tell me something that no woman wants to hear. … It was insulting. It was offensive and it just made me feel awful.’
Clare later told Galavis that she wouldn’t stick around for just a ‘physical connection,’ but he convinced her that he wanted her there.
‘We have had our ups and downs, but I know that she could be the one,‘ he told her. ‘I just know it.’
According to Us Weekly Juan Pablo had turned to Clare Crawley and whispered this gem: ‘I love fucking you but I don’t know you.’
‘I got to follow what I think is best for me and I have to say goodbye to you,‘ he said, trying to hug Clare, but that shit didn’t pull muster as she backs away.
As Clare turns to go, she can’t help (can you blame her?) give our stud a piece of her mind:
‘I saved this moment for the man of my dreams and I thought that was you,’
‘What you just made me go through — I would never want my children having a father like you.’
Yes kids, my head is whizzing too. Clare got played and used. Then again isn’t that half the fun of watching the show to see who’ll put out and get nothing back in return?
Shit though hardly fared too much better for Nikki Ferrell.
‘I have a ring here in my pocket and I’m not going to use it,’
3, 2, 1, ….
‘I’m not 100% sure I want to propose to you, but at the same time I’m 100% sure I don’t want to let you go.’
And then there were these comments on the web that made me wonder as well:
Of course the guy is trash, but why is this so ‘shocking’? When women hook up or even are in a relationship and want the guy to lust after their parts and ‘love f–king them’ it’s all wonderful, but if the guy says a thing like that at the wrong time then he’s uniquely evil? Amazing the hypocrisy. I have no sympathy for her.
I wonder at what point she thought it was a good idea to sleep with him. He is emotionally stunted, devoid of any personality, and is just plain slimy and smarmy. If I were her I would be seriously questioning my ability to know good from evil.
I would have left the helicopter and kept on walking. He showed his true colors and she was dumb to have dressed up and been all starry eyed, preparing for a proposal.
Unfortunately, as sad as it was, she brought this on herself. She just threw herself on him and was so desperate to get a proposal, which resulted in him stringing her along to get what he could out of her.
Personally….I think Claire blew it and was a sore loser by shooting back at Juan Pablo by saying she would never want to have children with a father like you……thats not what she said when she was trying to win him over. I agree with his statement immediately after she spewed that venom. She showed her TRUE colors and he was damn glad he didn’t pick her and she proved to him why. Claire…you blew it with a capital B. because…if he EVER wanted to revisit you….that ship has sailed. How do you think his parents are going to view that vile comment. I don’t anything he said on that cliff warranted your sore-looser comments. And…since I think this show is RIDICULOUS anyway…because how in the world are you going to decide who to marry base on a TV shows seasons.
So actually what is stupid is the show….great way to meet the love of your life, on t.v., being allowed to make out with 25 women and do nothing but say stupid things for how many weeks? Clare was too bright for this guy and he ended up with the perfect person for him, but I doubt he’ll commit to anyone anyway. He just loved the publicity and attention all the free sex. But then I guess I’m just as stupid for having watched this drivel.