A Georgia Tech frat brother, Matthew Petersen faces the prospective of discipline after his ass went on to send a chapter-wide email advising his fellow brother on how to lure “rapebait” at parties.
The email, which was first brought to the administration’s attention two weeks ago by concerned students, began making the social media rounds after being forwarded to the college life site Total Frat Move.
Attributed to the social chair of GT’s Phi Kappa Tau chapter, the “rapiest email ever,” as TFM calls it, goes into graphic detail on the topic of “how to mack and succeed at parties.”
TFM sums it up:
The subject of his email is “Luring your Rapebait,” and it reads as a “How-to” guide on talking to girls at parties, getting them drunk, aggressively dancing with them, then finally, closing the deal. And although he urges his brothers, “NO RAPING,” this is the rapiest tangent I’ve ever seen.
Read the good rapebait in full below:
Alright chods, some of you could use some help on how to mack and succeed at parties. Mostly pledges do, but some bros could use a review. For anytime throughout the party… If you are standing by yourself at any point, YOU ARE OUTTA HERE!!! If you are talking to a brother of your pledge brothers when there are girls just standing around, YOU ARE OUTTA HERE!!!
Ok, if it is before midnight… A group of girls is standing around, grab a bro or pledge bro and go talk to them. First, introduce yourself and get their name, ask if they are having a good time, and then ask if they want anything to drink. If they say yes, walk them to the bar and tell them what we have to drink. If they say no and they look like they are in a sorority, ask them if they are in a sorority (DUH). If not, choose one of the following: where are you living, where are you from, have you been here before, how are classes going, or where all have you been tonight. Then proceed to have a conversation. IF THEY ARE HAMMERED AT ANY POINT BEFORE MIDNIGHT, JUST SKIP THE CHIT CHAT AND GO DANCE.
Midnight or after, if you have been talking for awhile and they’ve had a couple drinks, ask if they want to dance. If you see an untalked to group or a solo girl, go up to her and ask if she wants anything to drink. If she says yes, get her a drink and then ask if she wants to dance. If she says no, ask her to dance. DANCING IS FUN!!!!! Always try to dance. If she does not want to dance and is with friends, say “aw thats no fun” (or something like that) and then ask one of her friends.
Here is how to dance: Grab them on the hips with your 2 hands and then let them grind against your dick. After that slowly alternate between just putting your hand across their stomach, but make sure don’t to go to high (keep it under the boob) or too low(dont try to finger her… yet). After a song, start putting your cheek on the side of her cheek. ALWAYS USE YOUR HANDS OR ARMS TO GUIDE THEIR DANCING in order to maximize your pleasure. If she starts putting her hair over her ear, THAT MEANS SHE WANTS A KISS. Therefore, try to give her a kiss on the cheek. They usually like that and nothing really should ebcome of it. In the case, go for the neck kiss. If for some reason they aren’t down for a cheek kiss, just dance through it or say you are going to get another drink and see if they want one. And then repeat from the beginning.
If the party is going good (a.k.a. there are a lot of open girls) try to escalate cause it’s awesome. Here is how to escalate: Try to twist her hips around to face you and dance front to front. FROM THERE THE OPTIONS ARE UNLIMITED! You can make-out with her (tongue on tongue), you can stick your hand up her shirt (not right away though), you can go for a butt grab (outside or inside the shirts), or use your imagination. ALWAYS START WITH THE MAKING OUT!!!! NO RAPING.
A short guide consist of the 7 E’s of HOOKING UP! 1. Encounter (spot a girl or group of girls) 2. Engage (go up and talk to them) 3. Escalate (ask them to dance, or ask them to go up to your room or find a couch, depending on what kind of party) 4. Erection (GET HARD) 5. Excavate (should be self-explanatory) 6. Ejaculate (should also be self explanatory) 7. Expunge (send them out of your room and on their way out when you are finished. IF ANYTHING EVER FAILS, GO GET MORE ALCOHOL. I want to see everyone succeed at the next couple parties.
In luring rapebait,
Gawker goes on to note following the release of the email, ΦKT’s brothers have gone into hiding and the email’s alleged author appears to have deleted his Facebook page.
On the frat’s alumni list, one member wrote a “heads up” to other alumni letting them know “the email” has gone viral.
“The alumni groups (BOG, House Corporation), Georgia Tech, and the National fraternity are aware of this incident and have taken actions,” wrote the alumnus, faculty member Rob Butera. “We have asked everyone (actives, volunteers) to refrain from any comments to the press/media and allow representatives of Georgia Tech as well as Phi Kappa Tau to speak officially on the topic and the actions that were taken.”
While Georgia Tech and the school’s Interfraternity Council have yet to issue an official statement, some readers of TFM are already offering a defense of the Phi Tau bro. If you can believe that shit.
“As Creepy/Rapey as this was; this should have never gotten out,” writes FratRowRugby. “House Business is House Business. Period.”
The moral of the story? It’s never good to widely share your misogynistic sensibilities, but it is always okay to be one in private…
fraternity women always swoon over that shit.
Frat brother = Raising men of character.
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And then there were these comments I came across on the web too:
It’s certainly sleazy, maybe even creepy, but it doesn’t propose anything non-consensual so I’d be hesitant to call it rapey.
Trying to get somebody wasted for the pure intent of getting them into bed is likely crossing the line. At the same time, the general college party atmosphere has always been ‘everyone gets drunk and then stuff happens’.
These guys are sleazy, but not advocating rape, or even date rape really. They’re advocating standard college hook-up shenanigans
There are plenty of college age girls who go out to parties, get drunk, dance with some frat bro, go home with him and have sex, and don’t feel that they were raped. The guy is just essentially advising his friends (in an admittedly creepy and misogynistic way) on how to be the guy those girls choose to go home with. Just because it’s sad and pathetic that some guys need this spelled out for them doesn’t mean that they are rapists.
It is never okay to assume a woman wants to be manhandled or have their bodies rubbed up against a man’s dick just because they chose to dance with you. And this fucktard is actively encouraging his frat buddies to get chicks drunk so they can barely consent. And I’m not saying that girls don’t want to hook up either but give them the benefit of making the decision for themselves without turning them into “rapebait.”